Dear Liberal Feminists, Don’t Tell Me How to Feel When I Recognize an Abused Woman

This is just a quick post to express my disgust at some of the liberal feminists (not all, they’re are some who are showing a lot of compassion!) and some pretend rad-fems (they know who they are, although it’s no one I’ve ever corresponded with) who are out there making videos and talking about “choice” and “consent” in relation to Melania Trump.

Of course, what has got a lot of women talking, especially those of us familiar with what it’s like to be trapped in a terrifying abuse situation, is that clip from the inauguration video (mentioned two posts back). How I felt when I saw the look on her face is exactly how a lot of other women, apparently, felt. It’s just one of the most awful things and it has led many of us to speculate about the obvious, as I did in that past post.

Still, there are some feminists, I don’t wish to be hurtful here, but frankly these women are exactly what alienates a lot of would-be feminists. It isn’t just their appearance. Clue: They don’t look anything like Melania Trump and would probably never end up in a nudie spread in a magazine. So, it seems that that kind of exploitation is beyond their grasp. Many seem to be life-long lesbians (lucky folks) who have never had the first-hand knowledge of how diabolically abusive and debilitating relationships with men are for women.

As such, these women – these so-called feminists – are just another brick in the wall of patriarchal abuse. They are representative of the women who help keep the abuse machine going. “Don’t feel sorry for her,” they say. (Yes, they’re saying this.) “She knew what she was getting into.” She deserves abuse, they say, because she said something they  didn’t like. In fact, she said what everyone with two eyes and half an ounce of computer sense can see, which is that the Obama birth certificate was a digital fraud. Oh, you noticed that? Familiar with Photoshop, are you? Do you have the “wrong” political views? Well, then, according to these women, the’re off they hook. Your suffering is all your own fault. That’s what I’m hearing from the likes of Teri Strange, of all people, in a recent video of hers in which she repeatedly talks about Melania’s “choices” and her “consent.”  (She started losing me a few weeks ago when she came out as a Marxist – nice! Yes, that’s right, nobody has the best interests of women like egomaniacal, authoritarian Jewish men. Well, it’s good to know who your enemies are, even when you find out a little bit late.) Here is the video, which is idiotic and all I can say in defense of Teri Strange is that she is not from the U.S. and seems to have not a clue how things work here. Nonetheless, it is a very victim-blaming, gas-lighting, condescending, smug (it must be wonderful to be this pure and above women who have been sexually exploited by men from the time they were little children), hypocritical, and maybe not-so-ironically dictatorial video:

Again, this is not political for me. I’m extremely pleased with Donald Trump as president. I don’t know if we’re all being set up. I suspect maybe we are. Certainly time will tell. But, there is a reason that this dude has had two out of three wives from the old Soviet Union. It was  – and, no doubt, still is – an authoritarian regime. People were not allowed to leave the country except under extraordinary circumstances. I will never forget seeing some of those people about six months after the wall came down and they were finally free. They are beautiful people, but they looked malnourished, their teeth were in need of care in many cases, they were impoverished and their lives were very sad and they didn’t know why they were so unhappy until they saw that wall come down.

Melania Trump grew up under that kind of regime. She grew up in poverty, the daughter of a card carrying Communist. The evidence in the various papers and what we’ve seen of Melania’s early life appears to have been one of exploitation from an early age. What kind of father dresses up his little daughters and prances them around in front of men?! (See the photo of the little girls in a room full of men at this link, it looks very strange to me.) What was she being groomed for?! The same thing we’ve all been groomed for. (Some of us more than others, granted, but that doesn’t mean we deserve it. Nobody asks to be born a Communist  – or to be born into a family of authoritarian and sexually warped religious nuts, such as in my own case!)  When a young girl is entrapped this way at a very early age, she doesn’t have the ability to exercise “consent” and “choice” because she is constantly focused on this little thing called survival!

There is a reason that men go to Eastern European countries to find women like this. It’s easy to trap someone in a foreign country where they have little mastery of the language. (And, just why is her English so bad after something like 20 years here? Is it because he has so isolated her? I wonder.) Many of them are very beautiful and they have lived under the heel of tyranny, poverty, and authoritarianism. I understand the frustration and the fear of having such a woman representing this country and representing by default the women of this country. It frightens me, too. But, to have no feelings of compassion for the plight of these women, including Melania, is monstrous.

The fact is we do not know what ability this woman has had to choose or consent to anything. After all, she did not even start out her life living in a free country. Every time I see an image of her, she looks to me like she’s scared half out of her wits. It is unlikely that she is free to speak for herself. She is not in a powerful position. On the contrary, she is in a very scary position, as was the first wife. Trump’s mob ties are not exactly undocumented. We know what has happened to women trying to bring a suit against him for any reason, at all. We, also, know what happens to women who cross Trump at the hands of his “beautiful Twitter” followers. If I were in her shoes, I ‘d be scared to death right now.

Really, I’m not going to bother trying to explain this to pseudo-feminists who only care about themselves. I doubt if they read much of anything I write, anyway. Furthermore, I know that just about anyone bothering to read this gets it already and I’d just be preachin’ to the choir. Frankly, these so-called feminists mean nothing to me. The liberals disgust me more and more every day as I’m watching them practically self-immolate. I’ve got my own thing going and I suggest if you’re reading this, you do your own thing, too. Focus on your own survival, on your own needs, and your own goals. I don’t say this because I want to tell you what to do, I just think it’s sad when women waste time on other women who clearly hate our guts! They’re not much different from the male abusers in that regard.  They are keeping this system of abuse in place as much as the men are and then when they throw in the hypocrisy of claiming to care one iota for women and the oppression of women, it reeks of betrayal. In fact, they are handmaidens most of all, with their: “Don’t feel sorry for her!” 

Additional material:

This is an article from the notoriously liberal, faux-feminist site, Jezebel, telling us all how privileged Melania is and how she deserves male abuse. If you want to keep your blood pressure down, skip the article and check out some of the comments, many very compassionate and understanding from other women who have been there. They all say the same thing I said in my previous post on this – I recognized that look in her eyes. I wish I could rescue her myself! But, we all know women have to do it themselves. Still, some compassion helps! Not turning your back on someone who is suffering, scared, and confused helps. On the other hand, this nasty rhetoric from a lot of lefty women is what is killing feminism! Here’s the article:

Radical Feminism: It is not My Job to Protect Men

It is not my job, as a radical feminist, to protect men. It does not matter what those men look like, where they come from, or what kind of twisted religious beliefs they claim to have.

Just because some black women don’t like me talking about black men’s (and sometimes black women’s – this is going on a lot!) violent crimes against white women, doesn’t make it my job to protect men. “White feminists, shut the fuck up!” means to me, stop talking about the crimes black men have committed against you.

And, for a long time, I did what most of us do. I didn’t want to hurt black women’s feelings. I didn’t want them to think I didn’t like them or didn’t care about them. But, it has become increasingly clear to me that this is simply a ruse, an aide, a way to enlist my complicity in concealing the black man’s crimes against women. By complying with the “shut the fuck up” command, I am aiding and abetting my enemy, which I will not do – not anymore.

I’m already in a corner. We all are. The only way to get out of it is to come out swinging. The truth is that there is a lot of black, male aggression toward white women and there is nothing “random” about it. It is no more random than any other male aggression toward women, except there is the additional component of race involved.

Here’s a recent example. Cops in NYC just caught the huge, black man, who sneaked up behind a small, white woman walking to work and slashed her in the face. It seemed to be another “random” (read that as targeted attack on a white woman by a black person) attack:

Now, remember this, if you can. This is not a hate crime. Moreover, when I call this man a nigger – a nigger man – that is supposedly me being racist. When a black man sexually assaults me, when he terrorizes me in my bedroom while I am trying to sleep, when I am harassed, followed, and threatened, as I go about my daily business in some large cities of this country, I, the petite, white woman, am regarded as “the racist.”

It does not matter that I have never committed a crime against a black person. It does not matter that I have never been in a position to oppress a black person in my entire life – unless saying, “No,” to black male perverts counts as oppression. Some men say it does.

I am told that I am supposed to suffer abuses from black men in silence – “White feminist, shut the fuck up,” and if I say anything, at all, I must watch what I say. I must watch how I talk about that black male rapist or stalker because he is deserving of some special consideration or some special rights because his alleged “oppression” is greater than mine. His suffering is greater than mine. His life is more important than mine. I may be called all manner of abusive names and threatened, but I dare not call him any name he does not approve of or else this proves that I am a racist, white whore and a bitch who is deserving of being raped, stalked or murdered by a black man.

I have wondered for a long time why black men are so aggressive toward white women. Why the constant harassment and threats in the streets, for instance?

The main reason, of course, is that they are men and this is how men behave toward women. Being black doesn’t automatically make them precious angels who can do no wrong. Just because some of their ancestors were held by white men (and other men, too) as slaves in the U.S, doesn’t make them innocent or any better than white men.

Another reason, is that like all men, they see women as property. They tend to see black women as their own property and us as the property of white men. So, attacking us – in their pea brains – is somehow a way at getting over on the white man. It doesn’t make much sense to us, of course, because only we know how much white men really hate, despise, and loathe us.

Yet another reason – and this is something I knew about, but sort of put on the backburner until recently – is that many black people in the U.S. are Muslims or are open to Muslim Brotherhood leaders like Louis Farrakahn, who has been urging black people to go out and commit “random” crimes against white women, children, and cops and, also, against white men. This is, they say, because they are angry with white people and want us to feel their “pain.” They want to hurt innocent white people in the name of the male. demon-god figure they worship. If they die in the course of  harming or killing one of us, they believe that they will reap rewards in heaven.

The activities in Ferguson, MO, which as I mentioned have spilled over into the area I live in, are rooted in Islam and not just the Muslim Brotherhood, but they appear to be closely associated with a “charity” called CAIR, which is responsible for bringing Muslims into the U.S. This organization, also, steps forward to defend Muslims who commit crimes.

A very nasty liberal “feminist” over at the Mancheeze blog a couple of months ago told me that this action in Ferguson “needed to be started” by someone and it didn’t matter who was behind it. When feminists begin siding with Muslims and with men who want to kill white women and white girls simply because we exist, who want to create agitation in public places that directly threaten us, that intimate us, that cause us to have to leave a place or face possible violence from men, these are not feminists.

This is, also, about the same time I was being told that I sounded like “a conservative” and a member of “Stormfront.” But, here’s the deal – I don’t appreciate being terrorized in my own community by black men or any other men – or black women, for that matter.  I don’t like having to pack heat everywhere I go. I don’t like having to feel that my life is in danger every time I see a man who looks like he doesn’t belong here – like he’s about to rob, kill or rape someone – and he’s doing something weird, like intimidating a clerk or robbing a store, or saying disgusting things to me.

You see, I have this crazy idea that even though I am just a small, white woman, that I have these things called basic human rights! And, that these rights are not trumped by men and they are not trumped by black men, or Muslim men or any other men or women who believe that they are entitled to special rights and considerations on the basis of the melanin content of their skin.

I believe that I should have a right to a basic expectation of safety, which – while it wasn’t great before – has become less recently as a direct result of these activities by blacks and Muslims.  It is pretty ridiculous that I have to not only pack heat, but I have to be constantly thinking how I might get out of a situation when I perceive a hostile, mostly black, male presence.

I dislike religion. All religions – every one I can think of and certainly all of the major ones – are founded by men. They are designed so that men, especially the founder, can freely rape women and children and acquire power and admiration they do not deserve. They are institutions of mental, physical, spiritual, and sexual slavery and abuse – committed by men, usually in a top-down, hierarchical fashion, with women and girls trampled, sometimes to death, at the very, very bottom.

I have every right to hate religion. I am, in fact, an adult survivor of a very perverse, Christian religious cult, which made my childhood a living hell. I hate men. I hate their made up demon-gods. I hate their abuses. Furthermore, this is a reasonable response and it is a reasonable position to take that religion exists to enslave, abuse and defraud people – especially women and girls.

So, despite what some other black women – who have, at this point, shown themselves to be my enemies – think, including one Loretta Lynch, Attorney General of the United States, I have every right and will exercise that right to criticize the filthy, perverted sex religions created by men. My criticism includes, but is by no means limited to, Islam and the perverted, pedophile prophet Mohammed who raped tiny little girls and whose living legacy is the rape, torture, enslavement, and murder of half of humanity.

As a woman, as a feminist, as an atheist, as a Satanist, as a witch, and as an intelligent human being, I condemn- as is my right – the living, breathing, walking, human filth of Islam.

When black or Muslim men commit crimes against women, I will not remain silent, I will not refuse to call them what they are – niggers, Muslims – simply because it might hurt the feelings of some people who have made it clear that not only do they not care about my rights or the rights of white women, but that they would like to harm me or kill me. They’ve said this and anyone who is supporting them, supports this idea. And, just because someone calls themselves something, such as a feminist or a woman – does not mean that’s what they are.

Any feminist who thinks it is her job to protect men because they are black or some other shade of darkness, or because they are adherents to some filthy, perverted, misogynistic ideology or another, is not a feminist. Such a person is an enemy of white women and and enemy of feminists.

Since we have been told that we are not allowed to criticize the Muzzies here in the U.S. (not just the “White feminist, shut the fuck up” thing, but, also threats to arrest and fine anyone who criticizes Islam, Muslims and the fag-pervert, pedophile, prophet Mohammed), and we have seen the result of “hate speech” laws in other countries, which renders it impossible to report publicly or to the police the most horrific violent crimes committed by Muslims and nigger men against white women, it is safe to say that now is the time to start talking about similar things happening here in the U.S., where we see that city governments and reporters are working to cover up the amount and degree of crimes committed by certain, protected classes (mostly black and Muslim men) against white women and girls.

Now is the time to talk about these crimes and harassment by black men and the time to call out the patriarchal religions, especially, Islam for being the perverted, heap of diseased filth it is. It is time to stop protecting, by our silence, the men and women who have stated repeatedly that they wish to harm us.

There is never a time in feminism to protect men and if you are calling yourself a feminist when your real goal is to work for the furtherance of the rights of men – any men – than you are not feminist at all. You are a mole, a infiltrator, a liar, and an enemy.

Real feminists are not cheerleaders for men, especially, at the expense of women.