RadicalWitch’s Response to the RadFem Series, “Dabbling in Essentialism,” by NoMorePaperTowels

I just finished reading an excellent series of articles, entitled, “Dabbling in Essentialism,” at an excellent new radical feminist blog, called “No More Paper Towels.” If you haven’t read it already, you have a wonderful treat ahead of you. The links to each of the pages in the series are below. The blog, also, features one excellent, analytical radfem post after another, besides this series.

Here are the links:

Dabbling in Essentialism, Part 1.

Dabbling in Essentialism, Part 2.

Dabbling in Essentialism, Part 3. 

Dabbling in Essentialism, Part 4. 

Dabbling in Essentialism, Part 5. 

Dabbling in Essentialism, Part 6. 

An addendum to these posts was added today, January 6, 2016, entitled: Addendum: Misandry.

I am constantly amazed at how many talented writers there are among radical feminists. This series covers different aspects of the failure of men and manhood and how this problem is pretty much out of our hands. Men have to clean up their own mess, hence the blog title, “No more paper towels,” because not only is it not women’s job to clean up men’s mess, but, as this series concludes, it is simply not possible.

Sometimes it just seems like something is in the air and we women, many of us, sense it at about the same time and we write things that are synchronous. While the subject of essentialism in feminism, whether males are inherently wicked or if it is a matter of socialization, is not a new subject, by any means, it is how the author went about writing on the subject and some of the things she had to say about it that made me feel this sense of synchronicity – of something in the air.

The past week or two, I’ve been watching what is happening in W. Europe and in the U.S., and, also, experiencing abuse from men online when I posted a comment at a YouTube video, which I rarely do. But, I did, and the torrent of abuse, sexualized abuse, viscous verbal against a woman who is old enough to be someone’s grandmother – I mean, myself, of course – really took me aback.

When we are younger, we are told that we bring this abuse from men onto ourselves, somehow. And, for a long time, I believed it – that I was causing men to be abusive and violent toward me. But, the internet has really changed a lot of my perspective. I realize that they are violently, sexually abusive to all women and, of course, young girls. I’ve experienced male abuse at every stage of my life.

Something in me, somehow, thought that when I got older that that whole “respect for your elders” thing might start to kick in. I’m still waiting.

Instead, what I see is that this whole thing has gotten much, much worse. Not only is it impossible for girls or women of any age to appear visible online as females without experiencing a stream of sick, sick abuse from men, it is impossible now to travel or to go places – just ordinary places – without being groped or talked to in some sexually inappropriate way by a man. And, the men doing this don’t look like street thugs, usually – not where I live, anyway – no, they look like those guys who escort their wives to church on Sunday, who probably have daughters and granddaughters of their own, and are on some level considered responsible by society.

I live alone, as a recluse, rarely seeing people at all, and still I find that male abuse is nearly impossible to completely avoid.

Regarding Male Verbal Abuse

There is something I can tell you about male verbal abuse against women and girls, which you may know, but maybe only subconsciously. It is, in fact, a form of sex abuse. It is, also, an expression of male sexuality, which is of a very perverse nature.

There is a type of man who fetishizes, in a way, abusive speech toward women. They are similar to that category of pervert who likes to tell you dirty jokes. Maybe you have one of those uncles. I once had two, who passed on, who would corner any female member of the family at a gathering and tell perverse jokes. He got off on seeing your reaction. It’s a sex thing for the men.

Similarly, there are men who enjoy verbally abusing girls and women. They will involve you into a conversation like a normal person might, then suddenly, they will heap a torrent of sexualized abuse on you like someone with Tourette’s  Syndrome. This is a sexual fetish, of a kind. The men are sick and they get off on abusing women and girls this way.

This behavior used to be more isolated among men – much like the practice of sodomy, S&M, and casual groping – but it has become really mainstream now, and especially on the internet. This is what we are seeing.

These are perverts and what we are experiencing is, in fact, a form of sex abuse.

As with other forms of sex abuse, it does not matter to the perpetrator if the victim is a child or an old woman, a relative, a complete stranger – it simply does not matter, as long as she is female.

Our Culture is Lost

Our culture is irretrievably lost. There was a time when a spinster , like myself, might have been treated with some kind of basic level of human respect, I think, but this is long gone. I don’t know this for a fact because I have never lived at a time when girls or women were respected enough not to be abused physically, sexually, psychologically and in every other way. I have known no other life.

But, I do remember a time, not that long ago, when men were not as openly hateful toward random women and girls. There was a time when they were slightly less dangerous than they are now. It wasn’t much, but it wasn’t quite as bad.

What made things bad before, although not so bad that I had to hide in my house for weeks at a time, was that men were not as uniformly hostile toward women as they are right now.

In the past couple of weeks, I have noticed that they have ratcheted up their hatred a few more notches. I’ve seen men – who are responsible for so much of the violence in this world that it would not be far from the truth to say ALL of it – blaming women for what they, themselves, are doing to themselves and to us.

Specifically, I have seen many right-wing men blaming feminism – feminism, defined, of course, as women’s human rights – for the fact that W. Europe is being overrun with violent men, who hate women and have said they plan to rape and subjugate or kill the women of those countries. This is, of course, an excuse for the European men to do nothing and eventually join their Muslim brothers in the rape, subjugation and murder of the women in their own countries. This is the course I see ahead and I can see no other.

Furthermore, apart from blaming feminism and women for the Muslim invasion, they have, in many of these countries, such as Germany and The Netherlands, completely sold out women. Literally, they have sold them, as if they are chattel or some other medium of exchange from another time.  The W. European men have regressed in this way just in time to meet their Muslim brothers and join them in their rape and murder of women.

Here in the U.S., I have been subjected to Johns – not only at my former work place, but simply as a matter of my existence. Men, even old men, assume that they can “buy” your “services” and it is not uncommon for men, again, men in high standing in the community, to prostitute women. They prostitute their female employees and literally try to prostitute every woman they come in contact with. Again, these aren’t the street thugs, but men in high standing in the community, men who are entrepreneurs, who sit on various boards, who claim to be Christians, because that’s the kind of place I live in. It’s the kind of people I know and as a single woman, I would say, I am acquainted with these men’s perversities in a way that married women are less likely to be subjected to.

We, also, have a problem with the men officially charged with protecting us. I’m talking about the cops. While we’re hearing about how BlackLivesMatter, there is an epidemic of cops attacking women, especially white women – I know because I am a white woman and the one thing I have learned to fear is the police. Being held at gunpoint for an hour or so, having a gun put in your face, being hit, slapped, choked and raped by cops – not to mention stalked by cops – has had that effect on me. This is something that is not only not discussed, but when black males or females are attacked by police, I read encouragement from the left to “do it to a white woman.” This is something you will see commonly at liberal new sites with comment sections.

The white supremacist males want to know why the white birth rates in this country are down. They only need to look in the mirror. Why would any women, who had any other option, ever want anything to do with white men – or any other men, for that matter?

Why would any thinking woman, who had any other option, want to bring another prospective male predator – or worse, a victim of male predators – into this world? The fact is that women don’t want to bring in more predators and victims, which is why in Muslim nations they have to be forced to do it. Treating women like livestock is the only way that males can ensure that more predators and victims will be born.

Men Everywhere

Online and practically everywhere else, almost all that is left, are men. It’s just about all I see and I try really hard to avoid them. But, there they are. The women are almost all gone. The only ones that remain are male-identified and saying what the males want them to say.

The African and Middle Eastern people pouring into W. Europe and here into the U.S., in some places, too, are mostly males. They are human traffickers, many of them, who commence trafficking in white girls and women, once they are resettled.

Their lives are devoted to the subjugation of women, but ultimately they are only men and when they die, that is all. There will be no more because they do not have the power to reproduce themselves.

They are a dead end.

The best possible outcome I can see for the future of males is that most of them will eventually die out without being able to successfully impregnate a woman or girl. With their deaths, the earth may finally be cleansed – at least, it might become a little freer – of this male filth.

That is the best possible outcome I can see in the future, given what the men are doing – prostituting and trafficking in women and girls, abusing women and girls at every imaginable opportunity, and talking about the complete, formal revocation of our human rights. Death is the best thing that could happen to any of us under these circumstances. What woman or girl would want to live under such circumstances and if we die, then they die, too.

Men Cannot Be Socialized Not to Rape and Kill Women

Men laugh at the idea that they can be taught not to rape. We women should be listening to them. Some of us are, as you see, in Dabbling in Essentialism, Part 1. 

Men know first-hand what many women, especially the male-centered women and liberal feminists, refuse to accept. Men are evil to the core. They cannot be socialized out of their violence. It is gaslighting of the highest order to say that men can be changed by the love of good women. It is a terrible lie, which has led to pain, suffering and death for probably millions, maybe billions, of women.

The truth is that they cannot be changed for the better. In fact, they only seem to get worse. They know it and those of us women who do know it find a measure of liberation in this knowledge.

Once we know that men cannot be made not to kill and rape us, then we can carry on our lives with the fullness of this knowledge, never aiding and abetting our enemy, but working only to better ourselves, to improve our own lives and maybe the lives of other women.

One of the best ways we can improve the lives of other women is buy disseminating this information, as NoMorePaperTowels blog does so well. This is a service to all womankind. If we all had this information starting out, we probably could have saved ourselves a lot of time, heartache and maybe some broken bones.

It is really a waste of women’s time and energy to argue over whether or not men can be socialized to be better because, even if this were possible, it is not our job. Men are responsible for themselves. We know they like to scapegoat us for everything they do wrong, while taking credit for our good work, but it is nothing more than a mind game. They know the truth. Make no mistake, they know who is really to blame for all the violence and misery in this world.

Men are Biologically Incomplete and Inferior

The truth is that men are failures of nature. As Mary Shelley described Victor Frankenstein’s “horrible progeny,” they are “an abortion.” By this, she meant “failure.” In fact, her novel seems to based around the horror of giving birth to a male child, a monster and a killer. Although, the Frankenstein monster displays more compassion and empathy than most human males ever do, because its female author projected these qualities upon the monster.

Just as in the novel, it seems as if someone tampered with nature and the order of things and something went horribly wrong with humanity (meaning woman) to produce males.

Their nature is demonic. Their nervous systems, their brains, their subtle energy systems are all weak, which is why they are violent and parasitic. They are simply not fully human, where the human ideal is the original human: Woman.

To see an adult male is to see something that is less human and often more neanderthal in appearance. They are typically hairy like apes and have large ocular ridges, like apes. Some of them walk more like apes than humans. As a group, they are aggressive and stupid and seem to be a less evolved version of Woman. But, in fact, I believe they are representative of some genetic tampering, of fiddling with the human race (Woman), which has been described in numerous old texts going all the way back to Sumer.

The male is an alien. He is representative of an alien race, which is hostile to humanity (Woman).

Is it possible for women to continue the human race (the race of Woman) without him? It seems so because science has shown that all is necessary for women to reproduce is that the process of mitosis is initiated. We do not need men to do this. But, this is a radical idea to say the least.

What would a world without men look like?

I don’t know, exactly, but it is obvious that the amount and degree of violence against women and girls would be greatly reduced and we would be much more free to pursue the highest possible realms of human achievement. I foresee such a future as one with remarkable technology and filled with wondrous beauty. I believe this is our true destination, which has been thwarted by this alien race – a demon race, who exist to hate us.

We Must Educate Ourselves and Other Women

We must educate ourselves and other women about these facts. There is no point, whatsoever, in talking to men or engaging men in anyway and to do so only presents a danger to us. Not only do they abuse us verbally in the perverse way I described above, but, if they have a chance to engage with us directly, it can become personal and then they are sending people to your house to kill you. So, engaging with men or allowing men to be part of our conversations is not a wise thing to do.

Once we have this knowledge and have been able to fully process it and assimilate it into our lives, we have the opportunity to apply it any way we can.

In order to realize our highest personal goals, we must focus on ourselves. We must not fall into the trap of giving energy to men as so many liberal feminists and conservative women do.

Typically, I see liberal women not only trying to socialize males or modify male behavior, but they work with them. They support gay men, black men, tranny men, etc. This is just an opportunity for males to use women, which they always do. Liberal women worked for Amnesty International, which is led by men and were disappointed when the men turned viciously on women and girls, and victims of human trafficking. Women who give their energy to organizations run by males or occupied, at all, by males – even one – are wasting their time and energy and are being used.

The mistakes made by conservative women are more obvious. They marry men. They birth male children for the men. They give their energy to patriarchal organizations such as churches or political parties.

All of this is a waste of women’s time and resources. It is a waste of our minds – our brilliant minds!

We are better and higher than men, who are only demons in the flesh, and any order in which men do not serve women is, by nature, corrupt and perverse. Men, if they must exist, serve women and this is the natural order of things. The demons always serve humans; never the other way around!

Never, at any time, should men be allowed to have authority over women. Nor, should women lower themselves to the status of working side-by-side with men.

If men ever had any kind of moral authority or any right of authority, whatsoever, they have clearly forfeited their rights because of their wicked behavior toward women and children.

Keeping the Focus on Ourselves

It is important that we keep focused on ourselves and our own dreams and goals, on our own mission in life. We mustn’t let men steal our energy and time, which is what they seem to want from us, at the very least.

This is hard for us. It is hard for me, anyway, because I wish the world was a happier place. But, I do my own things, focus on my work, focus on the things that make me happy, even if I’ve had to give up a lot of thing in life, like the freedom to travel, which is something I used to enjoy and always wanted to do.

There is still a place for us, at least, for a while longer. We must try to be happy and when we look for companionship we would be wise to look to other women. While relationships with women may not perfect, they are usually far less terrifying and violent. Relationships with other women are often the most fulfilling, although such opportunities are rare for most of us.